Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts

Saturday, 15 June 2013

爸爸节

爸爸很爱吃妈妈的醋
所以怎样都要庆祝一下(含蓄的)

我出世时爸爸三十岁,人人都说是饼印出来的。我第一个会说的语言是英文,爸爸教的。 爸爸最积极让我学音乐,说是因为小小的我自己坚持, 辛苦也带我去学,直到最后。

爸爸最喜欢我,因为我ManJa,
脾气很暴躁的爸爸到我念高中为此都不曾骂过我。 我也很少逆他意,家里吵架我都是使者,劝兵,唠叨爸爸的工作是我的。
爸爸冲涼很久,冲好凉之后比花还香。
爸爸从车里出来就很臭,烟臭。
爸爸的假牙很恐怖。爸爸吃很多。
爸爸很疼他的孩子。爸爸心地其实很好,有时思想也很简单,所以理财观念差哈哈哈哈,我们三个都遗传到了。

我十八岁了他才能接受我长大了,比较少叫我little big ching,和没有用跟小孩说话的语气跟我说话。
知道我和Mr M交往时,爸爸好像接受不到但又不敢表现出来,努力成为一个开放的老豆,挺好笑的。
我的好朋友们挺怕来我家,因为爸爸很爱讲,讲不完的大道理吓到我朋友了哈哈哈哈

爸爸或许不是好丈夫但他可以说是一个90分的爸爸。 爸爸现在老了,也看得出爸爸也成长了。呵 ....孩子在长大,父母也在长大。父亲不一定是英雄,也可以是成长路上的同学,我们都在学习。

对爸爸我总是很矛盾, 但都因为是一家人,还在为家人找那个不矛盾的点。

父亲节快乐
祝爸爸脾气不暴躁,心平气和,万事自然顺心

照片:年轻的黑爸和望着蛋糕流口水的lui lui 以及某堂姐的怪兽脸一枚

Saturday, 8 June 2013

The Bridge Fell, Some lives go on some lives end.

No earthquakes no signals, nothing, it just fall.
One of the 2nd Penang Bridge's exit ramp at Bayan Lepas area had collapse on Thursday.
Unfortunately, there were vehicles on the road under the ramp.
Works to clear the collapsed concrete are still in progress. The chance for survivors under the 500 tons concrete are little. Sad.

One victim had been confirmed from that tragedy.
He was a father of two little girl aged 11 yrs old and 7 yrs old. At his age of 45(according to the news), he left his last word on the phone before the concrete end his life. Without knowing incident that will happen minutes later. This dad called home and asking what his beloved family wants for dinner, he was going to buy them dinner. But he and the dinner never reach home.
From the photo of his family shared on facebook, after his family identified his body, I can see that his family did not weep aloud....
The 11 year old daughter weep silently, her young sister wipe her tears away.
The mother of the girls just sat there quietly, like she can't accept the fact...Hopeless, unknown, sorrow, helpless.
This picture broke my heart.

The people that you had been talking with over the phone few minutes ago just left you forever, live are so fragile, death are random. Anything can happen within seconds.....

I can't imagine what I will become if my loved one leaves me. Or what will happen to them if something happen to me(touch wood*)

Really....unthinkable.

Live is short, Don't leave any regrets.
When will misfortune happen? We don't know, but why ask?

I forgive people easily, although they may not take me seriously cuz I am soft hearted. Sometime I hate that, but I'm glad somehow, cuz I can easily be with them happily again. What a shame if our last memories were on a fight?
Not to say that being a person who won't get mad on everything. Just...
Live like it is the end of the world tomorrow, then you shall precious the things you have now.
Then it will be easier to let it go, to forgive. right? Though sometimes it takes time, but...fix it fast!

Lastly, RIP, the departed.

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Penguin Falling Asleep